My World

My World
The street on which I live.

Friday, 29 June 2007

Tales of a South African Pub



The Buck & Hog is a pub in Emmarentia, a suburb in Johannesburg. Affectionately known as the Buck, it's a pub like any other might find anywhere in South Africa, maybe in the world. But for the patrons, and even those who don't go there much, or have only been there once or twice, the Buck is more than that. It's a home away from home, a place to wind down, or wind up, a place to rant about your troubles, or give advice to someone else, a place to do the crossword, or compete with others with the general knowledge section of the newspaper. It's a warm, comfortable place.

The Buck is co-owned by my sister, Bronwen, but it wasn't always so. For years before Bron even started working there, and for a time afterwards, it was owned by Charles, a butcher by trade (from what I've been able to glean). Charles is an interesting character. A large man, over six feet tall, with his very own tankard that only he, as former Master of the Buck, gets to drink out of. He's known for disliking loud or live music and giving some pretty good hugs. He also seems to have a constant phobia of stepping on my nephew Xavier.

But back to Bronwen. Obviously, I've known her my whole life (she being my older sister and all). She's business-minded, capable, able to multitask in an almost super-human way. She gets things done, and above all, she's loveable. She's a take-no-shit-I-bite-back type of person. She's tiny, only about 5'2" (and she's never forgiven me for growing taller than her), but she exudes a strength that I can only dream of having one day. She juggles handling the pub and raising her 13-month-old son, Xavier.

The other co-owner of the Buck, the financial backer, is PC. A man of British descent, he says little (at least to me), and seems a very quiet and shy man. But those that know him seem to love him. He's tall, thin, with grey hair, though he can't be much older than his 50's. He seems to love the Buck, he gets so excited when he works. He's a good person.

The Buck wouldn't be able to function with just Bronwen at the helm (since I don't think PC has the abilities of a barman), or at least, she wouldn't be able to function if she had to do it herself. So, there are those that work the bar, and the restaurant. Linda, Brian, Michelle, Yvonne, Wessel, Percent and David.

Linda is amazing. She's a manicurist by trade and does some pretty amazing shit with people's nails. As soon as I get over my nail-biting habit, I plan on going to her! She's been married twice, and her youngest lives with her ex-husband. Her older daughter, Christa (15) lives with her and her new husband, Graham. She's another take-no-shit type of person, and capable of whipping everyone into line. She's sweet, funny and caring, and she's amazing with Xavier, whom she often babysits.

Brian is an interesting guy. From Zimbabwe originally, he's now studying journalism through UNISA and paying his way with his job at the Buck, along with several other jobs, while taking care of his wife and two-year-old daughter, Wanayi, who is absolutely gorgeous. I gave Brian a crash course in computers when he first started his degree. He's a nice, loyal guy, even if he's sometimes a little bit unreliable.

Michelle recently started working there. A strangely timid lady, originally from the UK, she's had some problems in her life, but is slowly working through them. She's funny, and she strikes me as a person who wants to be accepted by those she's around. She's kind, and has a penchant for wearing jerseys with teddy-bears on them. She has a little daughter of nine, who lives in Durban with Michelle's mother.

Yvonne, I don't know much about. She's a quiet girl who seems to be about my age, but very capable and sweet. I haven't spoken to her much, but she works hard, and she's almost always smiling.

Percent and David are the chefs of the Buck and they cook DAMN nice food. I know little about them too, except that they work hard, and will willingly cart pizza up five flights of stairs for me when I'm babysitting Xav in the flat upstairs. They're friendly, grat guys. Wessel... all I know is that he's Linda's brother, but he's a very nice guy who makes one hell of a difference to the distribution of the work load on a busy weekend.

And then you get the regulars. Aside from my dad and me, there's a multitude of strange and loveable characters who frequent this apparently most desired of watering holes. Two noteables are, of course, Brett, Bronwen's fiance and Xavier's dad, and Graham, Linda's husband. Brett is a jack of all trades and master of most of them. Builder, plumber, electritian, you name it, he can fix it. He adores Bron, and he's a great dad. Xavier is his second child. About 15 years ago his wife and 18-month-old daughter were killed in a car accident, and Brett only really got over it shortly before Xav was born. Brett's a strong guy, with a strange sort of vulnerability about him. I love him dearly, and so does my family.

Graham... he's interesting. He worked in Media for a while, and I'm not sure what he does now, but he's extremely bright. We have the same taste in books and have a sort of trade thing going. I like him a lot, I've got a lot of time for him. He's very good with Christa, his step-daughter, too, and treats her like his own. They're very alike. Graham is also what I like to call Bronwen's arch-nemesis. Those two are constantly chirping one another shit. It's really amusing.

There's also Uncle Roy, who suffers from emphisema and has to be on oxygen for most of the day, except for his hour when he gets to come down the Buck, like clockwork, and sit and have his two cigarrettes and his drinks. He's interesting to talk to, and was once an engineer.

Then there's Angie, also known as Godbat (being Xavier's godmother). She's kind, and sweet, and well-meaning, even if she can get a bit much at times. Everyone loves her and cares about her, for all her flightiness. If you're in trouble, or upset, you can always count on Angie for some advice, or just a hug and shoulder to cry on. She's a great person, and so amazingly full of love for the world, for all her issues and problems. I love her dearly.

Richard (with guitar) and Angie (with Xavier)

And that leads me to the next godparent, Richard. Like Angie, I've known him for years. He provides the live music some evenings, and on Saturdays. He loves Xavier, and is a wonderful guy to know. He's constantly trying to get me to do the cryptic crossword with him, even though I'm completely hopeless at it. He has the patience to sit with me through every clue until I get it.

That's not everyone from the Buck, not by a long shot. But they're the some of the ones I know best. To go into everyone would make this entry about twice as long!

In ay case, the Buck & Hog is a place very near and dear to my heart, and I love it there, even though I don't touch alcohol.



The Buck & Hog. From left to right: A patron, Brett, Bronwen, Xavier, I Forget His Name, and a Blurry Yvonne.



So, if you're ever in the area, this is one place to go visit. ^_^

Monday, 04 June 2007

More blogthings! *is addict*

You Passed 8th Grade Science
Congratulations, you got 8/8 correct!


Whee, yay.

You Should Travel to Japan
From freak sightings in Harajuku to awesome sashimi, you'll love Japan.And who knows? You might end up on Japanese TV!


Ha ha ha ha!!! *Snort* Yeah, those that know me will find this funny...

You Are 30% Extrovert, 70% Introvert
You are quite reservedYou aren't afraid of social situations...But you very much prefer to go it aloneAnd why not? You're your own best friend!


Sort of like me...

You Have Fantastic Karma
You are a kind, sensitive, and giving person.And all your good deeds will pay off - if they haven't already.But you're not so concerned with what you get in return anyway.You have an innate caring nature - and nothing can change that!


Yay.

Your EQ is 127
50 or less: Thanks for answering honestly. Now get yourself a shrink, quick!51-70: When it comes to understanding human emotions, you'd have better luck understanding Chinese.71-90: You've got more emotional intelligence than the average frat boy. Barely.91-110: You're average. It's easy to predict how you'll react to things. But anyone could have guessed that.111-130: You usually have it going on emotionally, but roadblocks tend to land you on your butt.131-150: You are remarkable when it comes to relating with others. Only the biggest losers get under your skin.150+: Two possibilities - you've either out "Dr. Phil-ed" Dr. Phil... or you're a dirty liar.


You Belong in New Zealand
Good on ya, mateYou're the best looking one of the bunchThough you're often forgotten...You're quite proud of who you are


Um... right...?

Your Eyes Should Be Brown
Your eyes reflect: Depth and wisdom
What's hidden behind your eyes: A tender heart


Wow, so my genetics got it right!

Your Personality Is
Idealist (NF)

You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.
You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.
You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.Truth and authenticity matters in your friendships.
In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.
At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.
With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.
As far as your looks go, you've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.
On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours.


You May Be a Bit Dependent...
You're more than a little preoccupied with being abandoned.You need a lot of support in your life, at all times.It's difficult for you to survive on your own...And you don't reallly think you ever could.


Hee...

Your Emoticon is Sad
You're feeling a tad depressed right now. It will likely pass soon, but for now, you need some major cheering up!


*snort*

Your Travel Personality Is: The Adventurer
For you, travel is how you learn about the world. And you like to learn the stuff that's not in guidebooks.You truly have wanderlust. When you're not traveling, you're dreaming about where you'll go next.And your travels are truly legendary - they leave you with stories you'll be telling for the rest of your life!


You Are a Boston Terrier Puppy
Aggressive, wild, and rambunctious.Deep down, you're just a cuddle monster.


o.O;;;

You Were a Coyote
Brutally honest, you encourage people to show their true selves.You laugh at life - none of it can be taken too seriously.


You Are Likely an Only Child
At your darkest moments, you feel frustrated.At work and school, you do best when you're organizing.When you love someone, you tend to worry about them.
In friendship, you are emotional and sympathetic.Your ideal careers are: radio announcer, finance, teaching, ministry, and management.You will leave your mark on the world with organizational leadership, maybe as the author of self-help books.


Interesting. I'm not, but there's a 13-year gap between my sister and me.

Ok, I really think that's enough for now. Damn things are addictive!

Randomness. Look! Quizzes!

You Are 56% Happy
You're definitely a happy person, even though you have your down moments.You tend to get the most out of life, though there's always some more happiness to be squeezed.
How Happy Are You?


You Are Somewhat Mature
You definitely act like an adult sometimes, but a big part of you is still a kid at heart.While your immature side is definitely fun, you're going to have to grow up sooner or later.
Are You Immature?


Your True Birth Month Is June
FussyAbidingFriendlyStubbornTalkativeSensitiveExecutiveHesitatingEasily hurtActive mindEasily bored DaydreamerLoves to jokeTends to delayTemperamentalBrand consciousLoves to dress upHaving lots of ideasGood debating skills Funny and humorous Thinks far with vision Prone to getting coldsPolite and soft-spokenAble to show characterSeldom show emotionsKnows how to make friendsEasily influenced by kindness Takes time to recover when hurtChoosy and always wants the bestThose who love me are enemies; Those who hate me are friends


.... interesting...

You Are 67% Pure
You're pretty pure, and you have no plans on changing that.You do have a devilish side though... and it will probably get the better of you.
The 100 Question Purity Test


Mwahahaha. >>

You Are 0% Homophobic
You're open minded, tolerant, and accepting.And you're not homophobic in the least :-)
Are You Homophobic?


And add to that: I'm gay! Mwahahahaha! Ha!

You Are: 60% Dog, 40% Cat
You are a nice blend of cat and dog.You're playful but not too needy. And you're friendly but careful.And while you have your moody moments, you're too happy to stay upset for long.
Are You More Cat or Dog?


Woof!

You Are Gay
In your opinion, there's nothing sexier than your own sex.There's definitely nothing straight about you!


Ha ha ha ha. Ha. Ha. *snort*

You Are 84% Intuitive
Your intuition is so spot on it's scary!You can learn a lot about people and situations, simply by listening to your gut.And you've even wondered if you can predict the future at times.Just be sure not to always listen to your intuition... someday it could be wrong!
How Intuitive Are You?


Yay!

OK, enough for now... for this post at least... I'll probably upload MOAR! :D Hah hah hah!